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What should grandparents get in return for giving their grandkids ‘free’ childcare?

What should grandparents get in return for giving their grandkids ‘free’ childcare?

As a doting grandparent who  helps provide more childcare than any other formal service in Australia should you be paid for your services by the government or your own children?

This intriguing question follows a new report into the grey army which each week  looks after 837,000 kids and weighs up the costs and the benefits for all parties.

While most do it for love a third of those in the survey, from the National Seniors Productive Ageing Centre, incurred extras costs such as food, transport and outings.

The report, which you can see in full here (link  http://www.nationalseniors.com.au/be-informed/research/publications/grandparents)  says:

“When making the decision to take on a regular care commitment, the grandparents in the study did not weigh up the financial costs and benefits: most had not even made any attempt to calculate the household outlays associated with their care. Rather, many thought it was a normal part of their grandparent role.”

It might be being normalised but the statistics suggest  half of grandparents want  the government to compensate them for the amount of care they provide. In Australia only three percent get paid.

It’s not so crazy. In South Korea grandparents are not only paid typically about $800 a month for childcare by their grateful children but they are, according to reports, demanding even more.

And recognition can come in different ways. In the UK for example there’s a system of carer credits to the public  age pension for grandparents providing such childcare.

The survey highlighted the direct costs of the caring commitment with 70% altering the days and shifts they worked, 55% reducing their hours and even 18% changing their jobs.

Also one third of respondents reported their childcare duties meant they had to change the timing or expected timing of their retirement.

Of course many reported enjoying looking after their kids’ kids but not after a certain amount of time. 

Interestingly there’s ‘tipping point’ of 13 or more hours a week when it all becomes less enjoyable and the impacts on work and retirement are ramped up.

The conclusion of the survey is that there’s a policy black hole with no recognition of the importance of grandparent childcare to the wellbeing of families, communities and the economy.

It suggests policy reform to help these carers make better choices and mitigate the impact of providing ‘free’ childcare on their incomes, retirement plans and ability to work.

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June
June from QLD commented:

We have looked after our grandson on and off for the last ten years. Our daughter is a nurse and has to do shift work at times it has being inconvenient as my husband is very ill but we would not trade one second of the wonderful love, hugs and kisses from him. We have not and do not expect to be paid by our daughter or government. Payment comes in many disguises. 

Ian
Ian from QLD commented:

I am a Grandparent and think that if it is a regular contract with the parents of at least 13 hours per week, maybe some form of payment to at least cover costs would be adequate. 

Terence
Terence from QLD commented:

Nothing 

John
John from NSW commented:

Recognition for the job we are unselfishingly doing! 

Gertraud
Gertraud from ACT commented:

When I had my oldest son way back in 1966, my mother was caring for the child while I was at work and yes, I had to pay her! Later, after moving to Australia, I drew on the assistance of various in-laws, all of whom were paid too. Why shouldn't they be entitled to payment for services rendered? Where grandparents look after their grandkids to enable the parents to work, then there is an obligation to pay for this service. With regards to the government making a payment, I believe that this is already in place, though as far as I know, the grandparents need to undergo training (ironic, isn't it?) to be at the same level as registered individual childcare providers. Payments should be made to grandparents at the same level as the childcare subsidy to childcare providers. Alternatively, make the cost of childcare a tax deduction, given that it is an essential work expense that has a lot more validity than entertainment expenses for business proprietors. No childcare, no income, no tax. 

Brian
Brian from NSW commented:

If the financial burden outweighs the emotional ties, then the parents should be able to help financially with the grandparents if they can. I do not think the government should be involved. Brian NSW 

Maureen
Maureen from NSW commented:

Grandparents should get nothing in return for minding their grandchildren. Parents are responsible for the existence of those children and not the grandparents or the taxpayer. Mind your own kids, or if you can't, don't go out to work. If that means reducing your standard of living, so be it. Get off the public teat. 

Dianne
Dianne from VIC commented:

A nominal amount from their children. Stop asking for everybody else to look after your children. 

Farin
Farin from NSW commented:

I believe grandparents love and get great pleasure looking after their grand children. They would not and should not do it for money. If they need the money, they should be compensated by their children and not the government. Where is kindness,love and care gone.?. No wonder values in today's society Has changed, as everything is measured monetary. Looking after each other and helping family members,friends,neighbours, etc., used to be a normal thing to do without any questions asked or waiting for rewards. 

Gertraud
Gertraud from ACT replied to Farin:

Why should they not be paid for providing a service to enable the parents to go out to work? The alternative is a childcare centre. 

beryle
beryle from NSW commented:

I gave birth to my children, the fact they trust me with their children is an honor. extra expenses ,if one finds it is too much ,the parents are working and would ,reimburse you. The government did not have the children,it is the choice of the individual family. That is where the responsibility lies. 

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