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What should grandparents get in return for giving their grandkids ‘free’ childcare?

What should grandparents get in return for giving their grandkids ‘free’ childcare?

As a doting grandparent who  helps provide more childcare than any other formal service in Australia should you be paid for your services by the government or your own children?

This intriguing question follows a new report into the grey army which each week  looks after 837,000 kids and weighs up the costs and the benefits for all parties.

While most do it for love a third of those in the survey, from the National Seniors Productive Ageing Centre, incurred extras costs such as food, transport and outings.

The report, which you can see in full here (link  http://www.nationalseniors.com.au/be-informed/research/publications/grandparents)  says:

“When making the decision to take on a regular care commitment, the grandparents in the study did not weigh up the financial costs and benefits: most had not even made any attempt to calculate the household outlays associated with their care. Rather, many thought it was a normal part of their grandparent role.”

It might be being normalised but the statistics suggest  half of grandparents want  the government to compensate them for the amount of care they provide. In Australia only three percent get paid.

It’s not so crazy. In South Korea grandparents are not only paid typically about $800 a month for childcare by their grateful children but they are, according to reports, demanding even more.

And recognition can come in different ways. In the UK for example there’s a system of carer credits to the public  age pension for grandparents providing such childcare.

The survey highlighted the direct costs of the caring commitment with 70% altering the days and shifts they worked, 55% reducing their hours and even 18% changing their jobs.

Also one third of respondents reported their childcare duties meant they had to change the timing or expected timing of their retirement.

Of course many reported enjoying looking after their kids’ kids but not after a certain amount of time. 

Interestingly there’s ‘tipping point’ of 13 or more hours a week when it all becomes less enjoyable and the impacts on work and retirement are ramped up.

The conclusion of the survey is that there’s a policy black hole with no recognition of the importance of grandparent childcare to the wellbeing of families, communities and the economy.

It suggests policy reform to help these carers make better choices and mitigate the impact of providing ‘free’ childcare on their incomes, retirement plans and ability to work.

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David
David from NSW commented:

It was a joy to look after our Grandchildren and I don't think it needs formalising and certainly not with payments from the Government.. What next do we want the Government to pay for? Holidays for those who cannot afford them. Any costs should be decided between parents and grandparents. 

Judith
Judith from NSW commented:

Grandparents and carers should be recognised officially with an I.D. card system which allows discounts for food, some fast food treat days, entertainment venues etc 

Warren
Warren from NSW replied to Judith:

I have a Senior's card that provides for all this. 

Jenny
Jenny from NSW commented:

Reminds me of the definition of a cynic I read once: someone who knows the price of everything and the value of nothing. Relationships are priceless. Don't go there. 

margaret
margaret from NSW commented:

It is a family issue. If grandparents are willing and happy to take on the roll of childcares, then the parents of the children through gratitude should contribute to any costs that are incurred for the food etc. or maybe the Grandparents are happy doing it for LOVE or being used? 

vicki
vicki from NSW commented:

It's every individual's choice to have children. If they can't afford to provide for them, they shouldn't have them. The government & taxpayers should NOT pay. 

Margaret
Margaret from NSW commented:

In return for looking after grandchildren grandparents get love and quality time with them. That's priceless and any cost involved is money well spent. 

Wendy
Wendy from QLD commented:

I have paid my taxes all my life, am not on a pension and if my daughter and her husband have to return to work to survive then the Government should pay me for babysitting. 

Annette
Annette from NSW replied to Wendy:

If the government were to start paying babysitters they'd have to pay all babysitters, not just grandparents. (A lot of children don't have grandparents living nearby.) And that would be ridiculous. The government isn't responsible for family choices. 

Wendy
Wendy from QLD replied to Annette:

Grandparents do it for nothing, surely they should be reimbursed for petrol and outgoings. Normally babysitters are paid as they are not part of the family. 

Annette
Annette from NSW replied to Wendy:

I don't have grandchildren. I looked after a friend's child for 10 years without being paid or reimbursed for expenses - 11 hours a day until he started school and then I used lots of petrol picking him up from school until he was 10. I taught him to swim, write his name and read and took him on lots of outings. I did it because I loved the child and felt sorry for him because his mother was useless. I'd love to do it for grandchildren if I had them. 

Warren
Warren from NSW replied to Wendy:

We have grandchildren and more on the way. I've looked after them (at times) for 3 days a week - approx. 36 hours especially during the formative years. There is no way I would ever accept payment, nor would I expect any bureaucracy look after our 'little futures'. 

Marilyn
Marilyn from NSW commented:

Today with planned families, equal wages for both sexes in the workplace and flexible working hours, childcare is and should remain a parental responsibility. If Grandparents are involved with caring the parents should ensure it is not to the financial detriment of their own parents. Government should be responsible for health and education. We need to move away from the post Whitlam welfare state mentality that pervades society, and instead revert to caring for our own, whether elderly or young. Then we will see a demise bad behaviour and attitude, and an increase in happiness in the truly "lucky country". 

Peter
Peter from NSW replied to Marilyn:

It is indeed the Whitlam welfare mentality at work. 

Peter
Peter from QLD commented:

governments should get out of the way and de-regulate child care. Let the parents make their own decision who looks after their children and how much they pay whilst they go to work, thus making parents accountable and not governments & politicians interfering and big noteing 

Someone
Someone from NSW commented:

We should not have to rely on the government for everything it's our duty and responsibilities to look after our grandchildren 

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