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What should grandparents get in return for giving their grandkids ‘free’ childcare?

What should grandparents get in return for giving their grandkids ‘free’ childcare?

As a doting grandparent who  helps provide more childcare than any other formal service in Australia should you be paid for your services by the government or your own children?

This intriguing question follows a new report into the grey army which each week  looks after 837,000 kids and weighs up the costs and the benefits for all parties.

While most do it for love a third of those in the survey, from the National Seniors Productive Ageing Centre, incurred extras costs such as food, transport and outings.

The report, which you can see in full here (link  http://www.nationalseniors.com.au/be-informed/research/publications/grandparents)  says:

“When making the decision to take on a regular care commitment, the grandparents in the study did not weigh up the financial costs and benefits: most had not even made any attempt to calculate the household outlays associated with their care. Rather, many thought it was a normal part of their grandparent role.”

It might be being normalised but the statistics suggest  half of grandparents want  the government to compensate them for the amount of care they provide. In Australia only three percent get paid.

It’s not so crazy. In South Korea grandparents are not only paid typically about $800 a month for childcare by their grateful children but they are, according to reports, demanding even more.

And recognition can come in different ways. In the UK for example there’s a system of carer credits to the public  age pension for grandparents providing such childcare.

The survey highlighted the direct costs of the caring commitment with 70% altering the days and shifts they worked, 55% reducing their hours and even 18% changing their jobs.

Also one third of respondents reported their childcare duties meant they had to change the timing or expected timing of their retirement.

Of course many reported enjoying looking after their kids’ kids but not after a certain amount of time. 

Interestingly there’s ‘tipping point’ of 13 or more hours a week when it all becomes less enjoyable and the impacts on work and retirement are ramped up.

The conclusion of the survey is that there’s a policy black hole with no recognition of the importance of grandparent childcare to the wellbeing of families, communities and the economy.

It suggests policy reform to help these carers make better choices and mitigate the impact of providing ‘free’ childcare on their incomes, retirement plans and ability to work.

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Murray
Murray from WA commented:

You do it for the Love not for payment 

Ken
Ken from NSW commented:

nothing except the love and respect of our familt 

Neil
Neil from QLD commented:

Grandparents are not forced to look after grandchildren. They do it for their family and the majority do not expect any remuneration and neither they should. It is not up to the government to provide anything. For goodness sake, we are becoming such a 'nanny country' that this is beyond the pale. Some people just don't seem to get the fact that the more the government is asked to provide the more it is going to cost taxpayers and the net result is nobody is any better off. If you expect something for helping out the family then your heart is not in the right place. If childcare is not affordable then families need to re-organise their priorities. What did we do fifty years ago when there was no such thing as childcare centres? 

Thelma
Thelma from NSW commented:

I think it's about time some Grandparents stopped spoiling their children and start teaching them their responsibility's and values. I cared for my grandies on school holidays and if parents wanted a night out. My children always gave me expense money especially during school holidays, it was never asked for, they were brought up to be independent and responsible. To expect the Government to take over your children's responsibility's adding yet another welfare payment to their overloaded outlay is ludicrous, they should be compensating you themselves. 

Gerry
Gerry from NSW commented:

Subsidised public transport. It cost us 2.50 each to go by train then ferry to Manly but it cost $24 for 2 children. 

Carol
Carol from NSW replied to Gerry:

There are plenty of parks you can take them for free 

Moniqe
Moniqe from NSW commented:

We have baysat our great grandchildren for almost 6 years and no way would we expect our granddaughter to pay us because we love them and would do it again. 

Jenny
Jenny from QLD commented:

There is not an endless bucket of money that the government has access to. Adult children should be compensating their parents for providing childcare which allows them to cut costs on raising their own family. I'm sure many grandparents receive enormous benefits from being so closely involved in their families and surely with the wisdom of their years can negotiate how much they are willing to do. I had no grandparents to call on when raising my own children but hope to offer what services I can when I become a grandparent one day. Lets leave the funds for those grandparents who are forced to take on f/t parenting roles again because of other life events. 

Paul
Paul from NSW commented:

We have 5 grandchildren for breakfast, then drop 3 children to 2 different schools, drop another to preschool then babysit the toddler for the rest of the day. If we did not do this their parents would have difficulties in meeting mortgage commitments which would in turn impact on our grandchildren who we love. We do it for love and would not expect to be paid for it although a little help with extra costs for food petrol etc would not be refused given my wife and I are both retired.. 

Liz
Liz from ACT commented:

I'd be so mad with both the parents & grandparents. Anything worthwhile in life is never free including the precious lives of the grandchildren who would be used as pawns. Parents should pay the grandparent(s) open a direct debit account and at least have a bit of self worth about themselves . At the end of the day if you expect the government to pay that means I would be contributing to your grandchildren's upkeep. No thank you. 

Paul
Paul from VIC commented:

Yes there should be payments to any carers - paid directly to grandparents or anyone else who looks after them BUT this should count as part of the parents entitlements to child care subsidies and this should have means tested limits. 

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