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What should grandparents get in return for giving their grandkids ‘free’ childcare?

What should grandparents get in return for giving their grandkids ‘free’ childcare?

As a doting grandparent who  helps provide more childcare than any other formal service in Australia should you be paid for your services by the government or your own children?

This intriguing question follows a new report into the grey army which each week  looks after 837,000 kids and weighs up the costs and the benefits for all parties.

While most do it for love a third of those in the survey, from the National Seniors Productive Ageing Centre, incurred extras costs such as food, transport and outings.

The report, which you can see in full here (link  http://www.nationalseniors.com.au/be-informed/research/publications/grandparents)  says:

“When making the decision to take on a regular care commitment, the grandparents in the study did not weigh up the financial costs and benefits: most had not even made any attempt to calculate the household outlays associated with their care. Rather, many thought it was a normal part of their grandparent role.”

It might be being normalised but the statistics suggest  half of grandparents want  the government to compensate them for the amount of care they provide. In Australia only three percent get paid.

It’s not so crazy. In South Korea grandparents are not only paid typically about $800 a month for childcare by their grateful children but they are, according to reports, demanding even more.

And recognition can come in different ways. In the UK for example there’s a system of carer credits to the public  age pension for grandparents providing such childcare.

The survey highlighted the direct costs of the caring commitment with 70% altering the days and shifts they worked, 55% reducing their hours and even 18% changing their jobs.

Also one third of respondents reported their childcare duties meant they had to change the timing or expected timing of their retirement.

Of course many reported enjoying looking after their kids’ kids but not after a certain amount of time. 

Interestingly there’s ‘tipping point’ of 13 or more hours a week when it all becomes less enjoyable and the impacts on work and retirement are ramped up.

The conclusion of the survey is that there’s a policy black hole with no recognition of the importance of grandparent childcare to the wellbeing of families, communities and the economy.

It suggests policy reform to help these carers make better choices and mitigate the impact of providing ‘free’ childcare on their incomes, retirement plans and ability to work.

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George
George from NSW commented:

The trouble today is parents and their children expect too much due to the options in life in our wonderful country . When we grew up we were happy to have a roof over our head and three feeds a day and we were lucky because I grew up on a farm but my parents still owed the bank to their mid 60's to early 70's Parents and Grand parents to a lesser extent try to give the children and grandchildren everything they could not afford or was not around in the days of them growing up So in short make the most of what you have and the thing children require most is to be loved and time spent with by all the family which money can not buy 

Errol
Errol from QLD commented:

If grandparents choose to help their children by looking after the grandchildren, (as carers) the Govt shouldn't have to pay the grandparents but the grandchildren's parents who can get various subsidies for child care.. The parent's should provide all meals and money (for outings) so that the grandparents are not out of pocket and disadvantaged. Today's parents expect everything for nothing, but is that the way they were raised. Alternatively the subsidies paid to the parent's can be paid directly to the grandparent / carer. 

J and B
J and B from NSW commented:

No - absolutely not - unless there are special circumstances and it is a 'absolutely necessary' situation. We must stop all these handouts ... families are supposed to help out and look after one another - thats what families do! Shouldn't expect to be paid for it. When people make family lifestyle choices, they should then take responsibility for those choices. Where will it ever stop ... . maybe a subsidy for providing help and support for a relative in a nursing home?? (that certainly cost me a lot of time and money)! 

Kevin
Kevin from NSW commented:

As grandparents caring for 3 of our grandchildren in Sydney, we travel some 200km each week from the Central Coast to assist our children whilst they are gamefully employed to meet their ever demanding costs. During school holidays we then take on the costs of feeding, housing & daily activities & excursions all of which is an extra cost to us pensioners. Some Govt. assistance would be great. 

patricia
patricia from NSW replied to Kevin:

Your children should be the ones to meet the expenses of caring. Too many expect the Govt to pay for everything. 

ronnie
ronnie from QLD commented:

I totally agree with William Stewart, NSW. The new generation expect's Gov handout's, where do they think the money is coming from. I love it when my daughter phones me to look after her kids when on holidays, and i drive from Mackay to Redcliffe to do it. I love the fact they injoy my company. 

Lesley
Lesley from NSW commented:

I loved helping care for my grandchildren when they were small. Now they are grown up they don't want to know me. However there were many a time when I would have loved to take them for an outing where costs were involved and I just couldn't afford it. Not being able to work was another issue. My daughter was a shift worker and I would have to travel 20 mins to her home at 5am. I would have appreciated a thankyou once in a while but that's not the govts fault. We also have helped this family financially to survive and now they can hardly talk to us. Its not the govts duty to raise the kids. Perhaps the parents should try living on a little less and balancing their books. 

Theo
Theo from NSW replied to Lesley:

Lesley, a sort of recognition all its needed. It doesn't have to be regular payment. Would it? You may have contributed to the betterment of your family, any of your grandchildren are liabilities to the Country? If not then you have contributed, so where is your recognition? To me this is what is all about. 

enid
enid from NSW commented:

WE SHOULD NOT BE CARERS FOR GRAN/CHILDREN UNLESS WE ARE PD FOR IT BY GOVT. WE SAVE THEM HEAPS OF MONEY 

Someone
Someone from VIC commented:

Lots of love , not "compensation" from the government. I would hope parents would pay (or at least offer) for Movie tickets etc. taking into account the grandparents financial situation. 

enid
enid from NSW commented:

WE SHOULD NOT BE CARERS FOR G/CHILDREN UNTIL THE GOVT PAYS US FOR 

Carol
Carol from NSW replied to enid:

Simple don't care for them - parents responsibility 

Beverley
Beverley from VIC commented:

I looked after my grand daughter from the time she was a few months old until she was about 3 & 1/2 then I became sick and my daughter put her into child care where she had to pay now my grand daughter is 23 and I hardly see her" I think I am past my use by date" I received one payment of $20 dollars in over 3 years it would have been nice if the government would subsidies grandparents for this job 

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