News

NewsWhat should grandparents get in return for giving their grandkids ‘free’ childcare?
What should grandparents get in return for giving their grandkids ‘free’ childcare?

What should grandparents get in return for giving their grandkids ‘free’ childcare?

As a doting grandparent who  helps provide more childcare than any other formal service in Australia should you be paid for your services by the government or your own children?

This intriguing question follows a new report into the grey army which each week  looks after 837,000 kids and weighs up the costs and the benefits for all parties.

While most do it for love a third of those in the survey, from the National Seniors Productive Ageing Centre, incurred extras costs such as food, transport and outings.

The report, which you can see in full here (link  http://www.nationalseniors.com.au/be-informed/research/publications/grandparents)  says:

“When making the decision to take on a regular care commitment, the grandparents in the study did not weigh up the financial costs and benefits: most had not even made any attempt to calculate the household outlays associated with their care. Rather, many thought it was a normal part of their grandparent role.”

It might be being normalised but the statistics suggest  half of grandparents want  the government to compensate them for the amount of care they provide. In Australia only three percent get paid.

It’s not so crazy. In South Korea grandparents are not only paid typically about $800 a month for childcare by their grateful children but they are, according to reports, demanding even more.

And recognition can come in different ways. In the UK for example there’s a system of carer credits to the public  age pension for grandparents providing such childcare.

The survey highlighted the direct costs of the caring commitment with 70% altering the days and shifts they worked, 55% reducing their hours and even 18% changing their jobs.

Also one third of respondents reported their childcare duties meant they had to change the timing or expected timing of their retirement.

Of course many reported enjoying looking after their kids’ kids but not after a certain amount of time. 

Interestingly there’s ‘tipping point’ of 13 or more hours a week when it all becomes less enjoyable and the impacts on work and retirement are ramped up.

The conclusion of the survey is that there’s a policy black hole with no recognition of the importance of grandparent childcare to the wellbeing of families, communities and the economy.

It suggests policy reform to help these carers make better choices and mitigate the impact of providing ‘free’ childcare on their incomes, retirement plans and ability to work.

Originally posted on .

Join the conversation

FiftyUp Club
What should grandparents get in return for giving their grandkids ‘free’ childcare?

Share your views with other members. 

Want to leave a comment? or .
Read our moderation policy here.
Mark
Mark from NSW commented:

Holy moly! What next? Can't people do something they probably enjoy without asking for compensation? What's the point of the kids paying me to look after their children given that I already give the kids what I can afford (in time and $$) to help their financial positions? Why also ask the government (i.e. the taxpayer) to pay for what should be regarded as a family relationship? 

Someone
Someone from QLD commented:

Grand-parenting is part of the cycle of life where life's lessons, skills and knowledge are passed on to new family generations and love is the payment. No welfare, we need to counter the 'it's my right...' mantra in the early stages of young life.. 

John
John from NSW commented:

More welfare! What happened to the concept of welfare being a safety net not a right? 

John
John from NSW commented:

As a contributor to assist my kids to work and manage there bills some recognition should be afforded 

Annette
Annette from NSW replied to John:

There certainly should be recognition, but it should come from your kids and grandkids - not the government. 

Angela
Angela from NSW commented:

I had 3 young children and sacrificed my job for a few years, managing to get some work at home to keep my mind active. I had no support from grandparents as one was in another country and the other lived 5 hours away. My children have such large mortgages they need to return to work much sooner. If that is the case you just have to pay the price, children are your responsibility. Not all grandparents are physically able to care for young active children, I don't believe you should be paid, childcare should not be so expensive. 

Kathryn
Kathryn from NSW commented:

We appreciate the privilege of being able to spend time with our grandchildren and the appreciation shown to us by their parents. There have been times when we have felt the strain on our resources both physically and financially but this is far outweighed by the love we received in return. Our country's welfare bill is already too high so any thought of payment should be strictly limited to those in real need. 

Karen
Karen from NSW commented:

They should get the thanks and gratitude of their children. Have we become such a welfare state as to even suggest the Government pay grandparents. Totally laughable. No wonder the country is in financial trouble. 

Beverley
Beverley from NSW commented:

No I dont think I need paying I get so much love from my 8 grandchildren its enough payment for me and my husband. even now they are older they come and help us doing many jobs for us .so money doesnt even come in to it .We are being repaid 10 fold 

Joy
Joy from QLD commented:

By the government if they are looking after the children full time, yes. Otherwise no, parents today seem to want everyone else to look after and pay for their children. 

Ana
Ana from SA commented:

Could not agree more with the comments bellow, whilst I am all for helping I sometimes feel like I am just being used as a free Baby sitter. I understand that they need help, but the funny part is that when a bay sitter is being used for the same purpose he or she gets a whopping over $200 for a couple of days. There are changes that need to be made as an example why not give grand parents the same payment that a baby sitter gets as apparently they pay discounted rates and the difference is then made up by the government for working parents where as when the parents work evenings and week ends and grandparents Babysit it is all free at a cost to the grandparent... 

Comment Guidelines