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What should grandparents get in return for giving their grandkids ‘free’ childcare?

What should grandparents get in return for giving their grandkids ‘free’ childcare?

As a doting grandparent who  helps provide more childcare than any other formal service in Australia should you be paid for your services by the government or your own children?

This intriguing question follows a new report into the grey army which each week  looks after 837,000 kids and weighs up the costs and the benefits for all parties.

While most do it for love a third of those in the survey, from the National Seniors Productive Ageing Centre, incurred extras costs such as food, transport and outings.

The report, which you can see in full here (link  http://www.nationalseniors.com.au/be-informed/research/publications/grandparents)  says:

“When making the decision to take on a regular care commitment, the grandparents in the study did not weigh up the financial costs and benefits: most had not even made any attempt to calculate the household outlays associated with their care. Rather, many thought it was a normal part of their grandparent role.”

It might be being normalised but the statistics suggest  half of grandparents want  the government to compensate them for the amount of care they provide. In Australia only three percent get paid.

It’s not so crazy. In South Korea grandparents are not only paid typically about $800 a month for childcare by their grateful children but they are, according to reports, demanding even more.

And recognition can come in different ways. In the UK for example there’s a system of carer credits to the public  age pension for grandparents providing such childcare.

The survey highlighted the direct costs of the caring commitment with 70% altering the days and shifts they worked, 55% reducing their hours and even 18% changing their jobs.

Also one third of respondents reported their childcare duties meant they had to change the timing or expected timing of their retirement.

Of course many reported enjoying looking after their kids’ kids but not after a certain amount of time. 

Interestingly there’s ‘tipping point’ of 13 or more hours a week when it all becomes less enjoyable and the impacts on work and retirement are ramped up.

The conclusion of the survey is that there’s a policy black hole with no recognition of the importance of grandparent childcare to the wellbeing of families, communities and the economy.

It suggests policy reform to help these carers make better choices and mitigate the impact of providing ‘free’ childcare on their incomes, retirement plans and ability to work.

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erica
erica from NSW commented:

Nothing from the govt, and what put more burden on the taxpayer if grandparents look after the grandchildren like ourselves we do it for love and to make our children's lives a little easier 

Peter
Peter from NSW commented:

As a working grandfather with 5 grandchildren, I spend considerable time with my grandchildren and believe that the love and affection I receive is payment enough. It is true that it cost me money and time as I sometimes have to pay for their meals, and drive them to different locations, but I think that is my responsibility as their grandparent. As for the government paying to assist, I am definitely against that. There are two many freeloaders sponging off government handouts now without adding grandparents to the list. 

Theo
Theo from NSW replied to Peter:

Yes Peter you are contributing to the country's best assets, that is its future good citizens. You deserve recognition. 

David
David from NSW commented:

I am a grandparent of three boys and I take my two youngest grandsons every day to School this is so my son and daughter in law can work to save money to buy a house, I drive 16 kilometres there and back and when they are on School holidays I have to do this drive a lot more. I leave the house at 6.30am and it takes me 20 minutes on a good day to get to their house, I dress the boys and give them breakfast and drive them to School. I retired a couple of years ago and up until Jan this year I was doing this morning and afternoon trips, the petrol alone cost me a lot of money and I should be enjoying my retirement but my son cannot afford childcare. If the government even paid us the petrol it would help. I do this on top of my part time job so I am not claiming any pension yet and I am 65. Regards, Ann 

David
David from QLD commented:

Well folks, I'm a pensioner and I am thankful that I am receiving it. Why on earth would I want to be given money by the government for taking care of my own family while I'm still able to do it ?? The handout mentality is just way over the top. Dave (Queensland). 

Peter
Peter from NSW replied to David:

I agree. Everyone seems to think we need the government to support us. 

Carol
Carol from NSW replied to Peter:

Not everyone - just the ones who think the Govt. has money - which it doesn't. It is the taxpayers money. And before they all start saying BUT WE PAID TAX. We know that but it still doesn't entitle you to get handouts all through your life 

Susan
Susan from NSW commented:

Respect and love 

Reg
Reg from NSW commented:

No I do not think Grandparents should get paid we look after our own G/Kids No I do not think we should get paid for looking after our own G/Kids we do it to help our own Kids.If minding them full time then you should get paid. 

Jennifer
Jennifer from QLD commented:

Grandparents do pay costs to look after their grandchildren but they get the value in seeing and helping to keep their grandchildren safe and grounded in good manners and caring ways. If their grandchildren were not close enough to look after they would incur costs in travelling to see them. Those parents of children with out the backup of family (grandparents included) have to have friends they trust and others to look after their children and sometimes they will need to pay for the care. Other parents will change jobs and professions if it is really important to have grandparents and or family be involved with their children, Grandparents should make arrangements with their own children to pay for expenses if they cannot cope with extra costs. We should not be a nanny state looking after peoples children nor paying for their needs and care., If people want to have children then they should be able to care for them, pay for them, and teach them as a number one priority that actions have consequences in all phases of life. Do not have children and expect others to help pay for them or raise them. this is the parents responsibility. Jennifer Mondora. 

Ron
Ron from NSW commented:

No. If they don't do it for "love", don't do it. 

Peter
Peter from NSW replied to Ron:

Wholeheartedly agree. It is done out of love and money cannot buy love and affection. 

O P
O P from VIC commented:

I believe its more important to compensate grandparents for caring for their grandchildren, than it is to have the government pay up to 100K for parents to have parental leave subsidies. There should at least be a system which rewards elderly people who have to do caring in some monetary way. 

Lesley
Lesley from NSW commented:

Where Grandparents look after kids so that parents can pursue other things (obviously more important to them than their own kids) such as career or entertainment then I think the parents should cover the cost and pay up as they would with any other baby-sitter. Unless there are circumstances like illness, bereavement or divorce when I think there should be some 'safety net' in place by the government to help out financially. Ultimately it was the parents choice to have the children in the first place and they should take responsibility. 

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